6 yrs later ()

6 yrs later
Posted by tara on May 9, 2008 at 00:33:23

so...6 yrs ago I met XMM... we were hot and heavy for 2 yrs before DDAY...then of course it died..then of course he came back. For about 2 more years we saw each other rarely.

I started losing respect for him..heck..he got caught, dumped me, told his wife he would never see me again and then he was back. He started to look pathetic to me as I started my "new life"..new job, new interests, etc. It seems he just stayed the same, learned nothing from the experience, the fallout, the whole thing.

Now he emails, IM's, I mostly ignore them..sometimes I scare him and say "unless you leave your wife I am not interested"..that gives me about 2 weeks of freedom from his harrassment cause he "disappears". Ladies..time...take time, look at the situation honestly...and go from there. I am not judging because if an affair situation works for you then go for it...but if it doesn't...then just get out. Time and a real honest look at the situation will help you get over it.

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I'm wondering Tara teaser 09:58:10 5/9/2008 (2)
- I'm wondering catsmeow 11:46:07 5/9/2008 (0)
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Hey Tara... Kat 09:39:39 5/9/2008 (2)
- well ya'll know what I did...LOL but teaser 09:48:22 5/9/2008 (1)
  - I know Tease... Kat 09:50:13 5/9/2008 (0)

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> so...6 yrs ago I met XMM... we were hot and heavy for 2 yrs before DDAY...then of course it died..then of course he came back. For about 2 more years we saw each other rarely. > > I started losing respect for him..heck..he got caught, dumped me, told his wife he would never see me again and then he was back. He started to look pathetic to me as I started my "new life"..new job, new interests, etc. It seems he just stayed the same, learned nothing from the experience, the fallout, the whole thing. > > Now he emails, IM's, I mostly ignore them..sometimes I scare him and say "unless you leave your wife I am not interested"..that gives me about 2 weeks of freedom from his harrassment cause he "disappears". Ladies..time...take time, look at the situation honestly...and go from there. I am not judging because if an affair situation works for you then go for it...but if it doesn't...then just get out. Time and a real honest look at the situation will help you get over it.