clear the confusion....
Posted by CoffeeDrinker on March 17, 2010 at 13:36:28
In reply to: Re: A few questions... posted by Aracari on March 17, 2010 at 13:31:04

	...and just focus on yourself. You are responsible for your happiness and no one else's. Not his, not hers, not anyone. When you start worrying about someone else's happiness, just remember "Not my life... not my problem." Sounds selfish, doesn't it? It isn't. You have to let people work out their own way, even if it means that they are going to choose to be unhappy. It's their right to choose that. These are grown adults, and they owe it to themselves to take care of themselves, whether they choose to do so or not.
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	Name:    Subject:    > ...and just focus on yourself. > > You are responsible for your happiness and no one else's. Not his, not hers, not anyone. > > When you start worrying about someone else's happiness, just remember "Not my life... not my problem." > > Sounds selfish, doesn't it? It isn't. You have to let people work out their own way, even if it means that they are going to choose to be unhappy. It's their right to choose that. These are grown adults, and they owe it to themselves to take care of themselves, whether they choose to do so or not.
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