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Quite different
Posted by Lisa on July 29, 2010 at 20:57:08

In reply to: anyone?* posted by nita on July 29, 2010 at 19:05:42*

xMM's W and I are quite different in looks and personality. She is 14 years older than me, buxom with short-ish curly/wavy "old lady" hair. She's boy-ish and athletic, yet a couch potato who loves doing nothing all evening but watch a movie she's already seen several times.

I'm thinner, small-breasted, straightish hair with a much more modern cut. I'm in decent shape, but not athletic in the least, nor could I ever be called "boyish" in my look or style. I rarely watch TV, and can't remember ever seeing a movie more than once.

I know that xMM was not drawn to me only physically or for sex. We were good friends & coworkers for 2 years before anything happened EMR-wise. We could talk for hours about anything, everything, and nothing at all. I loved his street-smarts, he loved my book-smarts. We shared the same sense of humor, values, and outlook on life.

My only "disappointment" about knowing about W and what she looked like, etc. is that he settled and decided to stay with her.

> this question is completely thoughtless, irrelevant, immature, f*cked up,etc. etc.
>
> but I ask anyway.
> for those who have seen BW. pictures or real life..
> were u disappointed?
> I almost wish she were more attractive..
>
> why though?
> At first, it was a sigh a relief..like "PHEW, I'm a total PRIZE compared to her" after a minute of that, it turned into this sad feeling of..."i am JUST a prize".. I am by no means saying she's ugly, I never use that word to describe anyone. But we are opposite ends of the spectrum, COMPLETE OPPOSITES physically. Different skin tone, hair, everything. I don't know her personality, but from what I gather she's a lot more outgoing and loud and non reserved. She looks very sweet, I almost feel bad for her for the first time.
> anyway...its rising questions about what I really am or mean to him. As we are LD, I never really imagined he was only in this for my body. But after seeing pictures of BW I am kind of suspicious of maybe he does only want me physically...how would I know?

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> xMM's W and I are quite different in looks and personality. She is 14 years older than me, buxom with short-ish curly/wavy "old lady" hair. She's boy-ish and athletic, yet a couch potato who loves doing nothing all evening but watch a movie she's already seen several times. > > I'm thinner, small-breasted, straightish hair with a much more modern cut. I'm in decent shape, but not athletic in the least, nor could I ever be called "boyish" in my look or style. I rarely watch TV, and can't remember ever seeing a movie more than once. > > I know that xMM was not drawn to me only physically or for sex. We were good friends & coworkers for 2 years before anything happened EMR-wise. We could talk for hours about anything, everything, and nothing at all. I loved his street-smarts, he loved my book-smarts. We shared the same sense of humor, values, and outlook on life. > > My only "disappointment" about knowing about W and what she looked like, etc. is that he settled and decided to stay with her. > > > > this question is completely thoughtless, irrelevant, immature, f*cked up,etc. etc. > > > > but I ask anyway. > > for those who have seen BW. pictures or real life.. > > were u disappointed? > > I almost wish she were more attractive.. > > > > why though? > > At first, it was a sigh a relief..like "PHEW, I'm a total PRIZE compared to her" after a minute of that, it turned into this sad feeling of..."i am JUST a prize".. I am by no means saying she's ugly, I never use that word to describe anyone. But we are opposite ends of the spectrum, COMPLETE OPPOSITES physically. Different skin tone, hair, everything. I don't know her personality, but from what I gather she's a lot more outgoing and loud and non reserved. She looks very sweet, I almost feel bad for her for the first time. > > anyway...its rising questions about what I really am or mean to him. As we are LD, I never really imagined he was only in this for my body. But after seeing pictures of BW I am kind of suspicious of maybe he does only want me physically...how would I know?