The first time.... ()

The first time....
Posted by Jessilynn on July 30, 2010 at 09:31:26

In reply to: anyone?* posted by nita on July 29, 2010 at 19:05:42*

> I saw his W was almost 2 years ago. Remember we worked together at one point and had always flirted. The first time she ever came into the office I was like "WTF"? Seriously? I am about 5'9 and what people call "thick". I am not built to EVER be 120lbs lol. I have shoulder length layered straight hair that is a different color and any given time.. usually dark with highlights throughout. I am very outgoing and nonconservative. Very independant and confident. W is the complete opposite. She is shorter than me, VERY round and reserved, dependant upon MM more so for her ego than anything else. She worries a lot about what everyone around her thinks and tries to make them happy, while I on the other hand couldn't care less what people think.

I have to agree with Mayam... sex does wonders for a man's feelings about himself. I know with my MM alot of our attraction is sexual because he is allowed to let his, what he calls "closet freak" out with me where he can't at home. A lot of it also is how I carry myself. Men are sometimes attracted to opposites of their W because it's a break from the "norm". So, I asked him what happens to me when I become the "norm" for him.... and he laughs saying to me " Baby, nothing you do with me will ever be a norm, for some reason I can't predict you."

i guess as OW we keep them guessing while W are predictable......

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> > I saw his W was almost 2 years ago. Remember we worked together at one point and had always flirted. The first time she ever came into the office I was like "WTF"? Seriously? I am about 5'9 and what people call "thick". I am not built to EVER be 120lbs lol. I have shoulder length layered straight hair that is a different color and any given time.. usually dark with highlights throughout. I am very outgoing and nonconservative. Very independant and confident. W is the complete opposite. She is shorter than me, VERY round and reserved, dependant upon MM more so for her ego than anything else. She worries a lot about what everyone around her thinks and tries to make them happy, while I on the other hand couldn't care less what people think. > > I have to agree with Mayam... sex does wonders for a man's feelings about himself. I know with my MM alot of our attraction is sexual because he is allowed to let his, what he calls "closet freak" out with me where he can't at home. A lot of it also is how I carry myself. Men are sometimes attracted to opposites of their W because it's a break from the "norm". So, I asked him what happens to me when I become the "norm" for him.... and he laughs saying to me " Baby, nothing you do with me will ever be a norm, for some reason I can't predict you." > > i guess as OW we keep them guessing while W are predictable......