Re: friendship vs passion ()

Re: friendship vs passion
Posted by Katymary on July 30, 2010 at 16:28:16

In reply to: Re: friendship vs passion* posted by Mayam on July 30, 2010 at 13:08:19*

> I don't know if any of our relationships with MM's really 'work'. I always say that the relationship is great; it's the circumstances that suck. Well...I think that means the relationship sucks. But, we're suckers for love, as always. If you don't have intense physical chemistry and emotional longing for your MM, I wonder what's keeping you? I'd been running for the hills if I wasn't still imprisoned by my own heart. One day I will run.

However, until then, to answer the original question...my MM became separated from his W after being caught in his affair (not with me: I came after this; I wasn't the affair). When she caught him one of the first things she said was, "if you were going to cheat on me, why couldn't she have been 28 and gorgeous, then I could have understood." The woman he had the affair with was older, matronly, and miserable looking.

I think it's less about what we all look like and more about what we do for each other that brings it all about. The attraction is the appetizer the rest of what we do for each other. I think that goes all ways - from wife - to husband - to lover and back. Anyway, I'm just brainstorming here.

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> > I don't know if any of our relationships with MM's really 'work'. I always say that the relationship is great; it's the circumstances that suck. Well...I think that means the relationship sucks. But, we're suckers for love, as always. If you don't have intense physical chemistry and emotional longing for your MM, I wonder what's keeping you? I'd been running for the hills if I wasn't still imprisoned by my own heart. One day I will run. > > However, until then, to answer the original question...my MM became separated from his W after being caught in his affair (not with me: I came after this; I wasn't the affair). When she caught him one of the first things she said was, "if you were going to cheat on me, why couldn't she have been 28 and gorgeous, then I could have understood." The woman he had the affair with was older, matronly, and miserable looking. > > I think it's less about what we all look like and more about what we do for each other that brings it all about. The attraction is the appetizer the rest of what we do for each other. I think that goes all ways - from wife - to husband - to lover and back. Anyway, I'm just brainstorming here.