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I did...
Posted by Folie on July 30, 2010 at 17:11:49

In reply to: anyone?* posted by nita on July 29, 2010 at 19:05:42*

I kinda knew what she looked like from a picture that he kept of her and their son in his planner. I never took a good look at it, but I knew that she was tall and blond and had a big smile.

I only laid eyes on her once. She was much taller than I figured ~ like six foot, heavier than I expected and quite honestly, on the frumpy side... and she was his age, which was ten years older than me. Then there was me ~ just a little over five foot, killer body, even if my boobs aren't all that big, total girly girl w/ a little vixen mixed in and a big ole happy, fun personality. I totally got it all the way around. I was younger, carefree, more attractive and we worked together, so I was in his face all the time (like 60 hours a week) and we clicked really, really, really well. It was a about the sex, but it wasn't just about the sex.

You won't know if it's just about the sex unless you follow the advice below and cut it out for awhile. I'll add to that and say to also cut out any sexy texts, emails, etc. You're LD, so I'm guessing that those things are part of your relationship. And talk about it. You've got nothing to lose by addressing it head on.

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> I kinda knew what she looked like from a picture that he kept of her and their son in his planner. I never took a good look at it, but I knew that she was tall and blond and had a big smile. > > I only laid eyes on her once. She was much taller than I figured ~ like six foot, heavier than I expected and quite honestly, on the frumpy side... and she was his age, which was ten years older than me. Then there was me ~ just a little over five foot, killer body, even if my boobs aren't all that big, total girly girl w/ a little vixen mixed in and a big ole happy, fun personality. I totally got it all the way around. I was younger, carefree, more attractive and we worked together, so I was in his face all the time (like 60 hours a week) and we clicked really, really, really well. It was a about the sex, but it wasn't just about the sex. > > You won't know if it's just about the sex unless you follow the advice below and cut it out for awhile. I'll add to that and say to also cut out any sexy texts, emails, etc. You're LD, so I'm guessing that those things are part of your relationship. And talk about it. You've got nothing to lose by addressing it head on.